Monday, August 30, 2010

About Winners

Winners are too busy to be sad,
Too positive to be doubtful,
Too optimistic to be fearful,
And too determined to be Defeated

Monday, August 23, 2010

Ways to Get Your Team Engaged

Courtesy - HBR

2 Ways to Get Your Team Engaged

Team meetings are supposed to be collaborative events. If you are doing all the talking and your team members are doing all the listening, something's not right. Here are two ways to revive your team and get their best thinking out on the table:

1. Share your ideas sparingly. It is tempting to share all of your genius ideas upfront. Instead, share one or two suggestions at a time. By limiting your comments, you give others the chance to contribute.
2. Ask lots of questions. Don't worry about having all of the answers. Ask insightful questions that spark discussion. When people speak up, ask them to clarify their ideas so others can understand.

Steps to Recover from a Mistake

Courtesy - HBR

3 Steps to Recover from a Mistake

While most people accept that mistakes are inevitable, no one likes to make them. The good news is that even large errors don't have to be career-enders if they are handled well. Next time you make a blunder, follow these three steps to recover gracefully:

1. Fess up. Trying to hide a mistake or downplay its importance can be fatal to your career. Be candid and transparent about the mistake, take responsibility for your part in it, and don't be defensive.
2. Make necessary changes. Mistakes are important learning opportunities. Explain to your boss and other interested parties what you will do differently going forward.
3. Get back out there. Don't let your errors keep you from ever taking risks again. Once the mistake is behind you, focus on the future.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Good One1

If you treat people well and let them know you value them, they will often live upto your expectations.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Relationship Tips

Problem-solving strategies: You and your partner can develop trust in each other by following these tips :

* TRUST - Key to Relationship
* Be consistent.
* Be on time.
* Do what you say you will do.
* Don't lie -- not even little white lies, to your partner or to others.
* Be fair, even in an argument.
* Be sensitive to the other's feelings. You can still disagree but don't discount how your partner is feeling.
* Call when you say you will.
* Call to say you'll be home late.
* Carry your fair share of the workload.
* Don't overreact when things go wrong.
* Never say things you can't take back.
* Don't dig up old wounds.
* Respect your partner's boundaries.
* Don’t be jealous.
* Be a good listener.